A warming Home

Our home is our garden, a divine heaven, a rest- piece for our comfort and relaxation. Our only shelter for restive hours of peace and mental calm. There is no place on earth that can give us a homely touch other than our guarded residence. We are much fortunate by having a roof above our heads and not resting on our EMIs for a monthly comfort in a leased apartment. Having a home is a necessity, a personal belonging of ours for status and class. We build a house and make it a sweet home with our cultural values and people-to-people ties. And a house is a barren land for broken homes, distorted relationships, a dwelling for insects and bugs, without any existence of a happy, loving family.

Home a maker of love

~ A happy family makes a happy home, and a happy home binds us in a relationship with love and purity. It is our survival, and without it a life is a complete mess. A sweet home creates new bonds of love and deeper ties, a happy united family, a good mashup of healthy relationship and a completeness of oneself with people they love by their side. A home gives us a life of ecstasy, divine pleasure, and self-assurance of living with materialistic things and worldly desires.

Home and its tidings for us -

* Our home is a reflection of our personal wealth, social status, and our image among the connections of our friends, colleagues, and relatives. A passerby gets an impression of our affluence of wealth and treasury with an appealing front-facing of our home, its stature, and building material.

* Our living place describes our mentality and our attitude toward others. Living in an old, shanty house provokes negativity and depicts how poor, shabby we are with our behaviour towards others. When our space is rich, clean, spacious, we welcome others with an open heart.

* Our home is our protective shield against external agents of seasonal winds, bad climate, and also a protective charm from Ill vices of robberies, rapes, and external attacks by acting as a hardwired mesh of steel, iron forming close-knit barracks to guard us.

* Home is our collateral and an ultimate support for wealth in times of crisis when we are under some financial deficit, mounting arrears of huge debt, and overdue EMIs. Our precious home is our supreme wealth saved for a rainy day when we are in distress of unpaid bills, supply of medical emergencies due to undertreatment of our loved ones.

 Permanent housing is a keeper of safety and security from unwanted miseries, any unexpected failure or mishap,  a restoring peace that generates positive energy, builds strong and healthy relationships, and a good companionship of happy, caring people to vibe with. 

Abandonment of family property

-> Home is a generational wealth, having memories of our forefathers , a long series of custom and convention that our ancestors created and a legacy for our descendants to carry it along. Our love and respect for our elders and their built-up memories with our curated home made it hard for us to detach, remain separated from the house we have shared with our long-lived generation of people of our lineage. And our leanings for our parental home become more profound with time much harder for us to abandon it. And it feels like a boulder to our heart when our kids, grandkids, sell out our parental property for the greed of money. 

A house keeps a family united if we live with trust and harmony, and divides us when our people become an eyesore to us. Family disputes and partition are now a common housing problem in every family, ending in a state of anarchy and lawlessness. Making a settlement in court is the only arbitration, a last resort for such property disputes and personal grievances.

Life without Home

-> Think of living in a temporary rented apartment with piles of unpaid housing bills siding 1 after the other and your money going half in clearing off debts of your non-payment. Under such circumstances, you can't think of a lasting peace. and fuller joy when you are battling with everyday expenses and the life of commons spending more than what you earn. And having a home gives you all joy and inner peace, free from the monthly burden of accumulated bills, dues clearance, and adds a lot more savings to your monthly budget.

 -> Without a home, life is like a shredded piece of paper, living in shambles of trash. Imagine yourself sitting on side of a road, poorly, with no or limited access to cooking essentials for survival. And you lean on others for your lively, waive to them for food and money to satisfy your hunger. Which is the life of a homeless man living by himself independently but alone in solitude disconnected from society, good people in a forlorn state with no one to take your care and give your life meaning for survival. If there is no home, you are living in isolation away from all social and cultural norms to give you a direction for a purposeful life. 

   A home sets our boundaries demarcate us from those living aimlessly wandering here and there. It's our comfort, a resting peace from our workday tussle and side hustle. It gives us a name, a social presence, and an earned image in a society. Having a home frees up our financial distress, strengthens our personal relationship with friends, family, and close ones, creates new bonds and deepens interpersonal ties by maximizing our footprint among people in our close network. It's our centerpiece of attraction, a golden beauty of our heart that laid a framework for building deeper ties, healthy relationships, and a social iconic image among people sharing a regional space.